That's Not Your Best!

 Family-Care     Self-care is important for your mental stability, physical ability, and your overall health.  Self-care is different for everyone.   Caring for yourself helps you to care for those you love.   I believe self-care, when you are married and raising children, is a joint effort which is dubbed "Family-Care".  Family care is creating a healthy life balance for all parties in your union.     Our families' care efforts begin each year with eating clean.  Eating clean is something we've done at the beginning of every year for several years now.  Eating clean promotes a healthy gut, kidneys, colon, spleen, liver, and other organs that hold waste from food. There are several ways to regularly keep these organs clean such as following a cleanse plan or fasting.  Our families' go-to is Daniel's Fast.     We began the Daniel's Fast which worked well with our household.  It was a healthy choice for a...

  Turn Your Missed Opportunities into Manifested Opportunities      Here's a little something to chew and ponder.  Opportunities are circumstances that allow possibilities to occur in our life (Oxford Dictionaries).  Those 5 U's opportunities are often missed resulting in unmanifested, untapped, unchartered, unmaterialized, and unrealized dreams.  Here's the thing when you decide opportunities are no longer knocking you become complacent.      I am here to tell you do not give in to common routines of life where just enough is enough.  Remind yourself that you are more than the common life. You are meant for greatness and being complacent is for average dreamers not extraordinary dreamers.  Which dreamer are you?     Imagine you are on a baseball team and it is the bottom of the 9th with all bases loaded.  The opponent team is up by 3 points, your team has 2 outs, with you at the plate.  What do you do?...

  2021 is the Year of Eviction...Eviction?     It is time to serve an eviction notice to all things in your life that have brought you the 5 U's.  Life's 5 U's is ugliness, uselessness, unfunctional, unavailable, and unavailing.  These 5 U's are not capable of adding value to your life.  In the words of my sister "this is a Year of adjustments"! You heard me, adjustments!     Stop letting the 5 U's of life rob you of life's happiness and joys.  Don't allow relationships to bring ugliness to your space.  Create a space in your life for positive energy only.  Choose to accept only those things that give you purpose, value, and aspiration.     If you are the problem then make adjustments.  Take a look in the mirror to say, "We are no longer friends, I am going to find myself a new friend.  One that values and loves me!"  Understand that if you don't value and love yourself no one else will and you will not reco...